The world of dating can be an thrilling and adventurous place as described on The Truly Charming. There is something that seems magical about sharing the ins and outs of your life with someone else. Here are five types of men to avoid:
Narcissist
This person will take any and each opportunity to speak about himself. If he does not lead the conversation, he does not seem interested. His top precedence is to get others to view him favorably and will do so at any cost. According to this egotistical Romeo, his co-workers love him and any girl would be lucky to have him. He may even try to entertain you with fictional or exaggerated war stories to reinforce his masculinity. (Ex: “Yeah, I almost beat him up…and the goldfish too.”) More often than not, this is a form of insecurity, and has absolutely nothing to do with you. This guy wants nothing more than you to play with and validate his inflated sense of self. This means telling him how right he was in that situation at work or how brave he was to step up to the man and his goldfish. With all of your energy invested in stroking his ego, your needs will likely not be met. This will ultimately drain you. If you end up entangled in this character’s web, do yourself a favor and run!
Revolving Door
Unlike the narcissist, the revolving door is quite snug in its own right. At first glance, he’s the perfect man. You cannot remember significant negative experiences with him because of his ability to separate his thoughts from what he is sharing with you. You two have most likely known one another for a while but have never but never ventured into serious territory. However, the romantic chemistry between the two of you is clear and you regularly spend quite a lot of time flirting to possibly take your relationship to the next level. You would often hang around for a few weeks before the calls finally stopped and you lost touch with one another. He then finds a way to pop back into your life under the guise of an “old friend.” The cycle then starts again. This person is actually operating from an ulterior motive and only contacts you when it fits their agenda. Similar to a card game, he won’t ever show you his full hand. There is no point in dealing with this man because his lack of consistency will ultimately make you doubt your self-worth. Simply put, people may not at all times tell you how they feel about you, but they will at all times show you.
Love Avoider
This person may be traumatized by a past experience and, as a result, will ruin everything they came in contact with after that. Since he does not often get entangled in too many serious relationships, he feels as if he’s doing YOU a favor. He is a terrible communicator and feels that being seen with you is sufficient to keep you contented. The Love Avoidant finds it easier to keep you in a box so he does not must show vulnerability. He uses deflection to make things “your fault” because it is easier than dealing with his own behavior. These are hard-wired core beliefs that you do not have to try to change. It’s almost impossible to convince someone why you should be the person they need to change – let alone put them down. Just walk away while you are ahead.
Wing Man
If the adage “birds of feathers flock together” is true, you should keep away from this man. Wing Man has a group of friends that he’s loyal to to a fault. These friends are also single and at all times ready to mingle. Some women may feel secure in their man’s ability to differentiate himself from his peers because he “trusts” him. However, never underestimate a man’s ability to succumb to peer pressure. While the wing guy may be a good catch, with regards to saving face for his friends or saving his relationship with you, the odds aren’t in your favor. This man often communicates with his friends continually and accompanies the man to every party or event.
Smooth Operators
This person is VERY dangerous. Failure to detect this manipulative mastermind could result in a Jerry Springer episode. (In the most extreme case obviously.)
The Smooth Operator is very similar to the Turnstile in that he ALWAYS has an ulterior motive. Your interactions with him will virtually at all times be based on his personal interests. However, this man has enough charm, wit, and sensual mystery to throw you out of his way for quite some time. This is a man who is not shy about women and masters the art of impartiality. Having sex with him is incredible – so good that it is apparent he is doing it often enough. Even although you can NEVER be the only woman, she is a master at keeping your insecurities at bay. This means regular phone calls, dates, and even appearing to care about your overall well-being. The Smooth Operator will avoid defining your relationship because it will create too many expectations that he may or may not meet. On the contrary, he’s very vague in all his outward expectations. He is a “let’s just go with the flow”, or “let’s see how things pan out” type of guy. You will often be confused and can easily mistake the relationship for “friends with benefits.” What you will not realize about this man until it is too late is that his loyalty will at all times be to himself. Dealing with this man is a one-way ticket to nowhere.
It’s important to get rid of these bad apples so they will not taint your overall dating experience. Most of the time, many of us only see what we want to see. There will at all times be warning signs before every disastrous situation in life, it is up to us to heed them. After all, where there’s smoke, there’s fire.
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