You only get one chance to make a good first impression, so you must put plenty of effort into your first date. Check out our dating tips for men!
Are you ready for a first date with the lady of your dreams?
Not to stress you out more, but first impressions are important. In fact, they mean a lot.
So if you are serious about getting into a relationship, you are going to want to go the extra mile on that first date.
These dating tips for men will help you just do that.
- Avoid the Weird Touch
The #MeToo movement has opened our collective eyes to the sexual violence women face. So keep any touching to a minimum.
A handshake is the best place to start. And then if the date goes well, maybe a side hug.
Of course, if he initiates the kiss at the end of the night (or before), then you have the green light.
Otherwise, keep it formal and respectful. You want him to feel safe and want to see you again.
- Consider Location
The ideal location will depend upon several factors.
If you know her or can perform some research on her, you can use that information to choose where she wants to be. For example, if he likes France, take him to a quiet little French cafe.
But if you do not have that luxury, then choose a neutral location.
Though you may be tempted to make a first impression by impressing her with something like rock climbing. But you truly want to have the ability to sit down, relax, and talk so you can get to know him.
Start in a public setting like a coffee shop so he feels safe and can engage in conversation. Then if all goes well you can see where the night takes you.
- Be Punctual
One of the best ways to make a good first impression on kibosh is to show up late.
When you do not bother showing up on time, you are essentially telling your date that he does not have enough priorities to plan your day accordingly.
So plan to get there early.
Of course, there are mitigating circumstances that could cause you to be late. If this happens, have the decency to call him to explain the situation.
Just texting him to let him know you are late is not going to work. Chances are, she’ll see you as the kind of guy who has no problem making her angry.
- Dress Well
How do you see the figure to make a good first impression. This shows him that you’re willing to put in the extra effort to clean up and find out what to wear.
You do not have to be a fashion model on the runway. Or even on magazine covers.
But take time to shower, style your hair, and dress in a way that shows you care about how you look.
A smile is also a terrific accessory. This is crippling and will make your date feel safe and want to get to know you more.
- Compliment him
But do not be blatant or whiny.
If she’s wearing a nice sweater otherwise you like her jewellery, for example, let her know.
You might think he has a warm smile. It’s fine to say that to her.
Complimenting him for the things you like about him shows that you pay attention to him.
Just watch out not to overdo it. Too much praise can feel genuine and make her feel like there’s an ulterior motive.
No matter how often you see yourself with this woman in the future, you do not need to mention it just yet. It will look scary.
Try not to get ahead of yourself.
- Keep Your Past Relationships in the Past
Just like you do not want to speak about the future on that first date, you want to avoid mentioning your exes either. Even if you take it as a compliment.
For example, “That sweater brings out the pretty blue in your eyes,” is a terrific compliment. But following that with, “My ex always thought she had pretty eyes, but yours is way prettier,” is a turn-off.
Get into this potential new relationship with a clean start.
Remember, he possibly has exes too. And do you truly want to hear about them on your first date?
Probably not.
- Speak, Share and LISTEN
When you first meet, there will likely be some small talk.
But then work on digging deeper so you can begin making real connections.
It’s best to go on a date with at least a few questions that you want to ask her. By doing this, you’ll set the momentum and begin the conversation flowing.
Watch for any reactions that indicate he’s uncomfortable with a subject and is willing to back away from it.
And make sure to pay attention to the answer. We cannot stress this enough.
One of the biggest complaints women have about men is that they do not feel like they’re listening. If you make a concerted effort to listen and are legitimately interested in what he has to say, it will increase the likelihood of a second date.
Keep the conversation natural and try not to push through any topic that she’s not comfy with.
- Be Polite to Others
Obviously you want to be kind and generous to your date.
But how you treat others says a lot about you.
So if you have ever been told you are impatient with waiters at a restaurant, for example, it is time to look into this.
We’re not suggesting you pretend to be someone you are not. Instead, look at what motivates the behavior and then practice kindness until it becomes a habit.
If your date notices that you are being nice to him, but then treat the guy who filled your water glass like a complete moron, he is likely going to see that as a red flag.
- Keep in touch
Finally, if the date goes well, call or text the next day.
You do not have to be a stalker about it. Keep relaxing. If he had fun too, he’ll be happy to see you again.
But playing “Don’t call for at least two game days” is a serious drag. It just makes women confused and angry. That’s not the ideal setting for getting a second date.
Take advantage of Dating Tips for Men
The dating world can be brutal and hard to navigate.
We hope the dating tips for men above helped you make a good first impression so you can land that second date.
From there, anything is feasible.
And keep checking back with us to find out what’s hot and what’s not!
