Most of the young girls grow up watching fairy tales full of magic and romance. Fairy tales like Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty and Rapunzel all end in an analogous way, with each princess finding her prince charming as they walk together towards a ‘happily ever after’ hand in hand. This perfectly animated sunset scene sticks with you as the perfect and one-of-a-kind ending to every adventure, to every great story – animated or not. It is the ending that we need to feel complete, to feel that our story has reached a satisfying end. So, we spend our lives waiting to have a prince charming on a white horse to rescue us (of what I’m unsure) and transport us to a perfect world with infinite sunsets and wacky theme songs. Sometimes we think we have found it – that our moment of everlasting bliss is just around the corner and then unexpectedly, what used to have the prospect of a fairy tale romance turns into a live action drama. So, we got up, we continued our search, waiting dutifully, seeking and hoping for our chance to be happily ever after. Sometimes, some of us give up. We stop attempting to find love, accepting our part of life as something without love. That we have the failure to be saved, because if there’s a prince he goes someplace to save some place else.
But who is this Prince Charming? Have you ever wondered who precisely we have been waiting for all our lives? Who is this person and what’s he really like? Will he be kind, loyal, and powerful? Would he treat you with respect and adoration and remind you no matter how you feel that you’re as capable and brilliant as your beauty… He possibly would, but why do we must wait for Prince Charming to be our everything? already know we can for ourselves. We do not need to allow ourselves to be bribed with the idea that other people come into our lives for the lone purpose of ‘saving us’. We must be a girl who can overcome her own troubles. To stop waiting for somebody else to be our hero. We need to wake up, to take charge and realize that we can be our own prince charming – and that we are the only ones who can truly save us. It does not matter how big or small the challenge is, is it learning to go it alone wood sealing, buying your own plumbing equipment or changing your own tires; to show yourself all the love and self-care you need: you could be the savior you have been waiting for. All you must do is try – here’s your five-step guide to becoming the Prince Charming you have been waiting for your whole life. A Prince Charming who won’t let you down, who will appear and stay with you endlessly, because that Prince Charming is YOU. You can be your own Prince Charming and here’s how… as the Pussycat Dolls aptly say; “I don’t need a man to make it happen, I become free, I don’t need a man to make me feel good, I do my job, I don’t need a ring around me. finger, To make me feel complete, So let me break it down, I can get off when you’re not around”. If they do not need a man, neither do you.
- Take responsibility
This is your life, you must live it the way you want to and that means being in command of where you are and how you are feeling right now. No one cares about your dreams and desires like you do, so it is up to you to protect them and ensure they thrive – you need to direct them, chase them. Once you take responsibility for your own happiness, it is against waiting or for somebody to come along and make you happy. You realize how easy it’s to be happy, how easy it’s to get, how easy it’s.
- Set Limits
Everyone needs boundaries – set some for yourself – boundaries about how you want to be treated, how you should not, what you value, what you value and how you want to attain these goals. Let the boundaries you have set for yourself guide you to make sure you achieve your happiness in a way that you’re comfy with – one that you’re happy with. These boundaries let you have a page where you can measure your self-worth in addition to how you want others to respect you.
- Have a Specific Purpose
Set yourself both short term and long term goals that you want to attain. Motivate yourself to attain it, this goal also shows how you see yourself and your abilities. Let these goals guide you and put you on a personal growth path where you can focus on yourself, your happiness, and your growth.
- Honest & Brave
This one is a little harder and perhaps easier if you have your own Prince Charming because being true to yourself is actually hard. It’s hard to be 100% honest with yourself about what’s right for you and how you feel. Be honest with yourself and the things you want and do not be afraid to take bold steps towards achieving them. You may want to invite a friend or relative to help track your honesty.
- Be kind
This may seem easy, but it is really very difficult and once you realize how indirect we are to others in addition to ourselves, do you really see the challenge of this point. This step is essential because to get your own Prince Charming, your own SO, you must love yourself the way they want you to. You must be your own biggest fan, your biggest cheerleader. You need to support and believe in yourself and the decisions you make for yourself with great confidence. It’s important to bear in mind of how you think and speak about yourself and try to radiate positivity and light in spaces that appear dark. You are more lovely, capable and powerful than you give yourself credit for.
