When summer comes abruptly, so do relationships. We look forward to this season of growth so that our human bonds can bloom evenly. When it comes to love relationships, summer is the perfect time for new meetings and fresh romance. But mere enthusiasm and an absence of commitment will cause a relationship to fall apart in the long run. Apply these suggestions to help your next affair shape a loving, long-lasting relationship: Look beyond the seasons. Don’t see a budding relationship as a non-permanent one, because you’ll turn it into one. A relationship may have a good chance of developing, but if you continue to think of it as cheating, you’ll stifle its potential and create unnecessary boundaries. Provide a good opportunity to expand beyond the summer months and into the years to come. Let it be what it is meant to be. A healthy human bond does not come with an expiration date, but it does come with a predetermined reason. The best way to decipher the long-term destiny of a love relationship is to answer the question, What lesson did this person come into my life to teach me? Choose authenticity
View beyond the seasons. Don’t see a budding relationship as a non-permanent one, because you’ll turn it into one. A relationship may have a good chance of developing, but if you continue to think of it as cheating, you’ll stifle its potential and create unnecessary boundaries. Provide a good opportunity to expand beyond the summer months and into the years to come. Let it be what it is meant to be. A healthy human bond does not come with an expiration date, but it does come with a predetermined reason. The best way to decipher the long-term destiny of a love relationship is to answer the question, What lesson did this person come into my life to teach me?
Choose authenticity attractiveness. Someone can look very seductive at first, but do not let first impressions fool you. Anyone can put on a “show” to get what they want from you, then quickly disappear, disappoint, or trick you after you give them what they want. Choose someone who is full of authenticity over momentary excitement. Don’t go over the apparent red flags. You will be given many early warning signs if someone is a pathological cheater, emotional abuser, commitment phobia, etc. Pay attention, for your own sake.
Do your inner work. It could be summer – or the end of the world for that matter – but if you are not ready for a relationship, your affair will not last. Before you can begin a new business, you must do some inner work: forgive others, clean your karma, and eradicate negative emotions. Once there’s balance and harmony within you, you’ll attract reflective quality associations.
Make peace with the past. The first action to take is honest introspection: What baggage do I carry with me from my past? Do I harbor hatred, anger, or bitterness towards a former partner? Have I received closure from all previous relationships? From there, the steps to take become clear. Remember to let go of your past to pursue this relationship in the future.
Understand what you need. So as not to hurt anyone (including yourself), understand what you need before trying to find a suitor: do you just want fun, a family, or something in between? If you really do not want to be in a relationship, do not start a summer romance with someone who craves commitment. Similarly, if you are looking to start a serious relationship, do not settle for somebody whose dedication only lasts a few nights. Also know that what you want and what you need can be two very various things: You may want to be single and to party, but you may need a real relationship to nurture your personal growth and help you develop as a person. Once you have a good understanding of what you want, you can proceed.
Summer is the perfect time to start a new relationship. And when we do become open to extending our summer romance into the future, we just might meet
Do your inner work. It could be summer – or the end of the world for that matter – but if you are not ready for a relationship, your affair will not last. Before you can begin a new business, you must do some inner work: forgive others, clean your karma, and eradicate negative emotions. Once there’s balance and harmony within you, you’ll attract reflective quality associations. Make peace with the past. The first action to take is honest introspection: What baggage do I carry with me from my past? Do I harbor hatred, anger, or bitterness towards a former partner? Have I received closure from all previous relationships? From there, the steps to take become clear. Remember to let go of your past to pursue this relationship in the future. Understand what you need. So as not to hurt anyone (including yourself), understand what you need before trying to find a suitor: do you just want fun, a family, or something in between? If you really do not want to be in a relationship, do not start a summer romance with someone who craves commitment. Similarly, if you are looking to start a serious relationship, do not settle for somebody whose dedication only lasts a few nights. Also know that what you want and what you need can be two very various things: You may want to be single and to party, but you may need a real relationship to nurture your personal growth and help you develop as a person. Once you have a good understanding of what you want, you can proceed. Summer is the perfect time to start a new relationship. And when we become open to extending our summer romance into the future, we just might experience a genuine romance. For summer and love, Dr. Carmen Harra & Alexandra
For summer and love, Dr. Carmen Harra & Alexandra
Dr. Carmen Harra & Alexandra Harra
