Breaking up can be tough – particularly if it wasn’t your idea. There are too many thoughts going through your head, and one of them is thinking of ways to get your ex back fast. However, it is vital not to adopt a “get him back at all costs” attitude. Kevin Thompson of Ex Returns Permanently says that by acquiring a positive attitude and working on yourself both mentally and physically, your ex will find you more attractive, he will miss you first – no deep complicated plans needed.
Cut Off Communications – For Now
After a breakup, you may be tempted to text your ex in protest. However, it is extremely important that you ignore it for a while. Don’t creep into his company, or be tempted to text him drunk: you must show him that you are happy without him before he starts thinking about you in your absence.
After a while, consider talking to him again. However, keep this communication casual, and no strings connected. Don’t reply right away, and keep your responses short – leave him wondering.
Looks Happy Without Him
Get a new haircut, shoot for that promotion at work, and wear a smile like it is your best accessory: look happy without your ex. Even although you may feel heartbroken and even a little hopeless, you must show him that life goes on without him and you should too. Live your life, look happy, and never let yourself go. If your ex could see you smiling and laughing with friends, he’ll wonder why you were not upset about the breakup – and we all know that it’ll drive him crazy.
Social Media Gold
It’s important to look happy on social media in addition to in your real life. Take a lovely selfie to post on Instagram, when you feel really sexy and attractive. Make sure he looks at you without really looking at you – a social media presence does not imply you are communicating with him. The more likes you get on social media, the more attention your ex will pay you.
Don’t be Afraid of Dating
If there’s anything that makes a guy want you back, it is seeing you with another guy. Whether you are casually dating other guys during this time or simply thinking about it for a night, know that you are not anymore waiting for your ex to see you. You will prove that you’re wanted by other people, and your ex may abruptly see you in that light, too.
Be Casual
If you occur to run into your ex around town or with mutual friends, never be awkward or show how you feel: you are fine and happy, remember? Don’t turn the other person away on the street or avoid him at the grocery store, but simply walk up to him and say hello. You will seem confident and happy to be away from him so he will wonder what he can do to get you back.
Use ‘Mutual’ Friends to Show Off
It may be tempting to avoid mutual friends between you and your ex, but you can really use that to your advantage. You cannot brag on social media and even to your ex a few new guy, a new car, or a better job, but your friends can try this for you. When your friends are the ones bragging, you’ll come off as awesome and humble.
With a little effort on your part (and a little more on her part), you can get your ex back. It’s not about bragging about your new job or new boyfriend, it is about as if you forgot about him – we all know that guys want what they cannot have.
