It’s no secret that with regards to male vs female orgasms, men orgasm during sex more often than women.
There is even studied was done to prove this, and a few now refer to this phenomenon as the “orgasmic gap.”
Why women have less orgasms is not known for certain. Some theorize it is a product of evolution, others think it is because of libido, and a few think it is because women have lower self-esteem with regards to body image.
While all of these theories may have some truth to them, it is also possible that the real reason is much simpler: many men do not know what to do to make a lady orgasm.
If you think you might be one of those guys, do not feel bad, because it is never too late to find out how to please a lady.
Read on for the top 4 tips to make sex better for him.
1. Take Your Time
Sex is not a race, and shouldn’t be treated as such.
Often times, a man’s plan to help a lady achieve orgasm ends up backfiring when they put too much pressure on the situation.
If you continually ask him if he is getting any closer, he will not be capable to relax and climax.
Of course, you want to make your woman have an orgasm, but trying to force it will not work and will only make her feel worse.
2. You Don’t Have To Figure It Out Alone
If you want to make a lady orgasm, do not feel like you must do it all yourself.
No, we’re not talking about adding another partner to a component. Instead, we’re talking about encouraging your woman to play a more active role in her orgasms.
For example, you could suggest that she use her favourite sex toy to help her reach an orgasm. If she’s having a clitoral orgasm, you can suggest one of these unique vibrator for him.
Many men think it is emasculating when a lady uses a sex toy or her own hands to help.
But, there’s nothing emasculating about letting your woman do what she needs to do to reach orgasm.
3. Map the Body
Remember, the vagina is not the only erogenous zone on a lady’s body.
Take your time before and through sex to explore a few other things. Playing with the breasts, neck, inner thighs, shoulders, ears, and buttocks can make a lady relaxed and prepared to orgasm.
Also, do not be afraid to experiment a bit with the speed and different pressure you apply to each area.
Invite him to provide you with feedback on what areas he is most passionate about, then follow his lead.
4. Foreplay, Foreplay, and More Foreplay
For women, there is nearly never too much foreplay.
In fact, foreplay it is generally what makes or breaks whether or not a lady will orgasm. In general, men should worry less about their rhythm during sex, and more about foreplay.
Always, and we mean all the time, wait until he shows that he’s ready to accept. Too often, men stop foreplay unexpectedly because they’re ready, and then resume sex without even contacting the lady.
Basically, you want to make it so he is practically asking for it. Then, off you go.
With these 4 tips in mind, sex should be so far better for your girlfriend!
